Now live in early access
FamRelay helps families and small teams share selected facts across the AI assistants they already use — without merging accounts or forwarding entire conversations. It works between your own assistants too.
Takes a few minutes. You’ll need an assistant that accepts custom connectors, and a Google account. Nobody else has to join first: it works between two assistants of your own.
Connects the assistants people already use, including more than one of your own — nobody has to switch to the same one.
The gap
You tell your assistant about the trip, the school event, the repair appointment, or the plan for Saturday. Someone else in your household may need the same details — but their assistant has no way to know. So you forward the message, resend the flyer, or explain it again. It’s the same if you use two assistants yourself: what you told one, the other never heard.
Alex’s assistant
The workaround
Sam’s assistant
Every household runs on small handoffs like this. Each one is minor. Together they add up to a familiar phrase:
“I thought you knew.”
Try the idea
Imagine uploading a christening flyer to your assistant and asking it to let your partner know. It shows you exactly which details it would send, you adjust them right there in the chat, and say “send it.” Your partner’s assistant — a different one — tells them what arrived. The rest of your conversation stays yours. Try it:
How it works
It all happens in the conversation you’re already having. No new app to check, no forms to fill in — and nothing moves until you say yes.
Ask in your own words, or your assistant can suggest it when it spots something someone else needs — an event, a pickup change, a travel window.
Your assistant shows exactly what it would send, to whom, and for how long. Change anything, say yes, or say no — both are one tap.
The other person’s assistant tells them what arrived and who it’s from, right in their own chat. Then it can use it in reminders, plans and answers.
Add FamRelay to your assistant as a custom connector, sign in with Google, and you’re ready. There’s no app to install.
https://api.famrelay.ai/mcp
Control
FamRelay is built around item-level permission. You can see what was shared, correct it, let it expire, or stop future access — without turning private assistant memory into a communal feed.
Nobody is preselected. Each person’s own assistant receives the item — not access to yours.
Only the details you approve move. Passwords, access codes and card numbers are refused outright.
Recipients always see who shared an item. And you can see when their assistant has read it.
Every share has an end date — when the event ends, a date you pick, or 30 days by default. Stop it sooner whenever you like.
An honest limit, stated plainly: revoking a share stops future access and tells connected assistants to remove the item. It can’t make a person forget what they’ve already read, or delete a copy they made somewhere else. We’ll always say so.
Use cases
Anywhere a missing detail creates work, a single approved fact can save a round of “can you resend that?”
Keep everyone’s assistant current on the trip without sharing the booking account.
You say: “Send everyone my flight times.”
Payment and identity documents stay out.
Pass on the deadline, the thing to pack, or today’s pickup change to the adults who need it.
You say: “Let Nana Jo know about Friday’s early pickup.”
Children’s information gets tighter defaults.
Let whoever’s home know who’s coming, when, and what they’re there to fix.
You say: “Tell Sam the plumber’s coming 8 to 10 tomorrow.”
Security codes are never shared broadly.
Share the schedule, a preference, or a finished task with the relatives who help out.
You say: “Let my brother know Dad’s appointment is done.”
Non-clinical details only during the pilot.
Turn a flyer or message into shared plans your partner’s assistant can actually use.
You say: “Can you let Sam know about this invite?”
Your private chat about it stays yours.
Clean handoffs between people — and the AI tools helping them. Founders, studios, executive support.
You say: “Pass today’s decision to Priya’s assistant.”
Client conversations aren’t exposed.
If your Tesla has Grok, FamRelay works by voice. Ask for the flight details you sent from the assistant you use at home, or share an appointment with your other assistants and your family while you drive. We use it in our own car.
Built for different assistants
Families and teams shouldn’t have to choose one AI provider just to stay coordinated. FamRelay is a neutral relay that connects through the Model Context Protocol — the open standard assistants use to add outside tools.
If your assistant can’t add custom connectors yet, tell us which one you use — it decides what we work on next.
Connect your assistantThe pilot
FamRelay is live, and anyone can get started today. The pilot is for a small number of households, teams and people with several assistants of their own who want to work with us more closely. Participants help decide the controls, the first integrations, and the moments where relaying information is genuinely useful.
Questions
No. Only a specific item you approve is sent to FamRelay — the details you agreed to, for the people you picked. Your conversations and your assistant’s wider memory are not part of the flow.
No. You share by asking your own assistant, in the conversation you’re already having — and the people you share with see it in theirs. You connect your assistant once; after that, it’s just talking.
If it can add custom connectors, yes. FamRelay connects through the Model Context Protocol (MCP), the open standard assistants use to add outside tools. The setup guide shows where to add it. If your assistant can’t add connectors yet, tell us in the pilot application.
Yes. Connect each assistant with the same Google account, then ask one to send a detail to your other assistants. You approve it first, as with any share. Every assistant connected to your account can then read it, and each shows it when you next ask what’s on FamRelay. That includes the assistant in your car: it works with Grok in a Tesla. See how it works.
Yes, with an honest limit. Revoking stops future access straight away and tells connected assistants the item is gone. It can’t erase what someone already read, or a copy they made somewhere else.
No. The same permissioned handoff works for small teams — founders, studios, executive support and household staff. See team use cases. It also works for one person: if you use more than one assistant, you can pass details between your own without anyone else signing up.
Nothing at the moment. We’re learning what’s genuinely valuable before we set a price. If that changes, we’ll say so clearly before you’re asked to pay for anything.
Yes, it’s encrypted — and no, it doesn’t train AI models. Every shared item is encrypted with its own key, locked separately for each person you chose. Your shared items are never used to train AI models or sold. See how every item is protected.
Live in early access
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